My 4-year-old son, Jase, loves to help! He loves to help with the fun, more obvious things like making yummy popcorn on the stove or setting supplies out for a craft he wants us to do together; but he also loves helping with what we often consider the boring, mundane chores.

Jase loves to help me wash the dishes, take out the trash, and even do the laundry. Whenever I need to do laundry, he’ll say, “Oh, Mommy, make sure you wait on me. Can I please help with the laundry?” And my response, of course, is, “Absolutely! I’ll let you help with the laundry,” as if it’s a fun adventure I’m allowing him to join me on!

Not only have I been shocked by his willingness to help, I’ve also been equally amazed by his appreciation for my allowing him to do so. Recently after we finished folding laundry, Jase said, “Mommy, thank you for letting me help you with the laundry. It was so fun!” I couldn’t believe it. In my next breath, I prayed, “Lord, may he always think laundry is fun, so I won’t have to do it anymore!”

Jase’s tendency to thank me for the most bizarre things like “letting him help me with the laundry” reminds me how important it is to cultivate a spirit of gratitude.

When Jase expresses gratitude for being allowed to help with the laundry it communicates to me that he sees this as an opportunity instead of an obligation ‒ that’s the power of gratitude. Gratitude both reveals and determines our attitude.

Gratitude empowers us to embrace all we have with warm, positive regard instead of negatively focusing on our lack. Embracing “all we have” goes far beyond our material possessions. As followers of Jesus, we have freely been given so much that, quite honestly, we don’t even deserve. No place in Scripture describes this more beautifully than Psalm 103:

Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits—who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s. The LORD works righteousness and justice for all the oppressed. … The LORD is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love. He will not always accuse, nor will he harbor his anger forever; he does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.

‒ Psalm 103:2-6, 8-12, NIV

Like the psalmist, I must remind my soul of all God’s benefits because the cares and tasks of my daily life take over, and I forget. I forget the goodness and kindness of God, His faithfulness and might, and His great love and mercy. Instead, my needs seem so great. I feel that I have so little. I’m overwhelmed by my own brokenness and inability to measure up.

But gratitude reminds me. Gratitude changes my attitude, and as I reflect on all the goodness of God, my heart changes. I’m no longer worried about the things I don’t have; I’m confident in His goodness and faithfulness to provide whatever I need.

Lord, thank You for who You are. Thank You for Your forgiveness, healing, redemption, love, and compassion. Thank You for not treating us as our sins deserve! As we reflect on Your goodness, draw our hearts to those who have not yet experienced Your great love. May we be ever aware and open to extending Your love and mercy to those who are far from You, just as You have extended it to us. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

  1. How have you experienced God’s goodness?
  2. Who shared the Gospel with you? Is there someone you can express gratitude to this week for helping you in your relationship with God?
  3. Who in your life also needs the hope of Jesus in their life? How can you be a part of bringing the Gospel to them?

“I will give thanks to the LORD because of his righteousness; I will sing the praises of the name of the LORD Most High.”

‒ Psalm 7:17, NIV

Traci Crowder

Traci Crowder

Mid-South/Great Lakes Field Director

Who is she? Where is she?

She is that woman who needs to know Christ. She is in your community.


  • Ask God to cultivate a spirit of gratitude in your heart that spills over toward action to those who may not know Christ.
  • Pray for the Christian friends in your life and all Stonecroft volunteers ‒ that they will embrace a life of thankfulness for their undeserved gift of redemption through Jesus Christ.
  • Pray for women around you who do not know our Savior. Pray that they might get to the end of themselves, and the beginning of their need for God.

Outreach Tips

  • Gratitude can change one’s attitude. Ask a woman you interact with on a regular basis how you might pray for her today. If she allows you to pray with her in person, embrace the opportunity to ask her what she is grateful for, then praise God for her grateful heart. Pray for her personal needs as well.
  • Invite a woman who doesn’t know Jesus to join you in meeting needs in the community. Volunteer together at a local food bank, senior center, soup kitchen, women’s shelter, or other facility that your non-believing friend has a passion for or interest in. Serving others in need brings on the “feel good” vibes that can change a bad day into a good one!
  • Think about others in your community or neighborhood who are in need. Join in meeting that need; be intentional to ask about how you can pray for them, too. Talk in your group about how you might integrate Holiday Prays in December.

Next steps

Add your own personal thoughts and prayers.


What steps will you take this month to develop a spirit of gratitude in your heart that results in loving action? How will you share the love of Jesus Christ?


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