The last part of a Stonecroft talk is the most crucial—it is also the part most often hurried because there is an urgent sense of the ticking clock. That’s why it’s important to build “breathing room” into your talk that enables you to slow down as you approach the final segment, allowing you to insert pauses and emphasize key phrases. As you apply your talk to your audience the Holy Spirit will stir hearts. Don’t rush through this time.

This is when you truly want to reach your audience where she is, as she is. For some this will be brand new information, an unfamiliar action you are asking them to consider so be sure your language isn’t laced with confusing “Christianese.” Address the misconception that there are many ways to God. Make it clear that Jesus Christ is the only way and perhaps include a Bible verse such John 1:12, Romans 10:9, or John 14:6 to lend authority to your words. You can also be sure there will be some in your audience who consider themselves already a Christian. Make it clear that being a good person or a regular church attender, baptism, or any other religious rite is not enough—there is a specific action that must be taken.

Approach the prayer slowly, letting them know in advance what you’ll be doing. Pause briefly before praying to give them time to consider. Pray slowly, in short phrases, with pauses in between, again so the words can settle deeply into the hearts of those praying with you. Pause again at the conclusion of the prayer, giving the Holy Spirit time to work. It might feel awkward to you, but trust me, it won’t be awkward for the person who has prayed—it will be wondrous!